HELP! My girlfriend has a male best friend
Sat, 2010-10-02 17:27
I am literarily fuming with jealousy because my girlfriend has refused to stop a relationship she has with this guy. She claims she has known him from teenage years. They went to the same schools all through uni.
This guy is always in the background and he is always phoning my girl. On one or two occasions, I have met him in her apartment and the closeness and the way they were laughing got me being suspicious.
I am normally a reserved guy and like nothing more than spending time with my girl. She tells me the only reason she still hangs with her male friend is because he takes her out (something I rarely do). She assures me she loves me and has nothing but frienship going on with this guy but am beginning to feel uncomfortable because am planning to propose. I dont want a wife who keeps a male best friend. 
Fri, 2010-10-08 15:12
#2
I can see you having lots of heartache from this person in future. You are not compartible with each other. You love staying indoors, she loves going out. She will end up hanging with people who will make her happy. I suugest you do lots of soul searching and talking it over before you put on that ring.
Sat, 2011-08-13 08:42
#3
God has regreted their creation.
Fri, 2011-08-26 20:34
#4
Any woman who doesn't have her husband as her best friend has got something hidden up her sleeves. The bible said a man (or a woman) should leave her family and cling to his wife (or husband if its a woman). Bringing in a third intimate person (except their children) is dodgy. You should have had all the "best friends" you want before finally committing to this individual. You cant have it all. You got to be contented with them. Your husband is your best friend. \every other person including family is secondary.
You said it all. Being a "reserved guy" is no excuse. Its actually selfish. Make out time to take her out sometimes. It could be a quiet restaurant for a start. Places you feel comfortable.